Intentional reflection is a powerful learning tool

Confucius, a Chinese philosopher during the 5th and 6th centuries BC, said:

By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third, by experience, which is the bitterest.

Confucius wrote this more than two thousand years ago. I read this quote almost every Sunday morning in an attempt to extract its full meaning.

Yes, experience-based learning is the bitterest. Learning through experience is effective, but it leads to mistakes we regret. And regret can lead to bitterness.

Yes, imitation-based learning is the easiest. Learning through imitation is a quick way to try something new. Yet imitation does not create mastery.

But reflection-based learning is the noblest? I’m still trying to understand what Confucius meant by this.

Here’s what I know so far. Intentional reflection is sobering. It forces you to examine the reality of where you are today relative to where you want to be.

And a dose of reality is a powerful learning tool.