Adjusting to fatherhood

Becoming a father has been far more rewarding than I ever imagined. But it’s also harder than I predicted. I’ve been a parent for three weeks, and I’m already questioning whether I can succeed at my current goals.

Before I change any of my current aspirations, I’m going to implement a few time management tactics to create more room for fatherhood’s demands.

First, I’m going to eliminate nonessential tasks. If a current commitment or regular activity does not contribute to my goals, I’m going to stop doing it. For example, I’m spending way too much time on social media right now. No more mindless Twitter feed scrolling for me.

Second, I’m going to say “no” more. If an incoming opportunity or request doesn’t align with my goals, I will decline respectfully.

Third, I’m going to timebox my daily work priorities. Timeboxing helps increase productivity and reduce procrastination by committing to complete a task within a time frame. For example, I could have timeboxed this article for 90 minutes. It’s harder to procrastinate when you set a deadline.

Fourth, I’m going to take advantage of multitasking opportunities. For example, I might only listen to podcasts when I’m exercising or commuting.

If these time management tactics aren’t sufficient, I’ll have to decide which of my current aspirations to delay. I hope it doesn't come to that.